From Scattered to Centered: The Hidden Force of Being Present

True joy comes from not chasing because the destination is always the present.

Tim Fairweather CA
4 min readOct 9, 2024
We cant always go there to find our centre. Image made with ChatGPT

A Body on the Road

It’s early Saturday. I’m on my motorbike, ready for the weekend: work, gym, lunch, and hopefully, time with my girlfriend. Then, I spot a body on the road.

Being present isn’t something we need to learn — it’s natural. But some situations pull us into the present with full force.

I slow down.

Before me is a motionless woman. She clutches a ripped shopping bag. A handbag strap covers her mouth.

I ride around and park behind her, blocking the traffic. Suddenly, I’m entirely in the moment.

Two foreigners run over and explain she fell from a car. I tell them to call the police. I remove the strap from her mouth and check her breathing. Her heart is fine, but I ask her to move. City traffic doesn’t wait.

Slowly, she sits up. It’s a domestic situation — the driver is her husband, and the boy standing on the side of the road is their son.

I look at the boy’s eyes — so many emotions swirling around in that young mind.

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Tim Fairweather CA

I learn from a real Kung Fu Master, I write about it here!